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Having
spent many years consulting Information Technology (IT) type companies and
supervising IT projects I have learned one thing… IT people are very
analytical. In fact, they can be down right difficult to communicate with.
I must
admit, working with these people is not always easy and many non-technical
people simply can’t understand them. IT managers can come across as cold,
sarcastic, authoritative and arrogant. But personally, so do many other
groups. I think we generalise too much in our society and we tend to put
everyone on the same plate.
If I was
going to approach and work with IT types I was going to have to find a way
to make these often cynical people my allies.
I’ll share
with you what I’ve found out over the years. Here are some valuable tips on
how to turn that difficult target audience into your special niche, one of
your best customers and your partner.
1.
Care about them.
It is often difficult to care about someone who comes across as
unreasonable. However, consider the fact that most business people,
especially business managers, are under a lot of stress. People react to
stress differently. By showing your difficult customer that you are
interested in their success, you will break down barriers that they may have
built up over the years.
2.
Speak their language.
This is a simple observation, yet vastly misunderstood. People don’t trust
others that don’t communicate at the same level. Words have different
meanings for different industries. Get closer to your target audience by
learning their “language”.
I speak 4
foreign languages. When I visit one of the countries whose language I speak,
I find something truly amazing. Even if the people I’m working with speak
English – when I make the effort to speak their native language, they open
up to me. They treat me as more of an equal. The same goes for learning the
jargon and key industry phrases of your customers. They will indeed open up
to you more.
3.
Become a friend.
People follow people that they like! If they like you, if they see that you
care about them then they will follow you. It is much easier to talk to your
customers if you keep this simple tip in mind.
4.
Disagree with compassion.
Do not make them feel belittled. Many times you will disagree with your
customers. They think they know better, after all it is their job to know.
You may be right but don’t argue about it. Disagree with compassion. Even if
you are right, make every effort to communicate your point without
belittling your customer. If they feel “put down”, I guarantee you that you
will loose them as a customer.
5.
Don’t focus on their weaknesses.
Don’t ever try to “change” your customer. No one likes the feeling of
another person trying to alter their behaviour. When you work with a person
and provide a focus on things that excite them, things that they feel proud
of, then their major weaknesses starts to deteriorate.
Take a
personal interest in your customers… even the difficult ones. Once you do,
they will begin to support you in response to the way you support them. They
will become your ally and quite possibly one of your most loyal clients.
Carole
Nicolaides is President and Executive Coach of Progressive Leadership Inc
who thrives on helping individuals and organisations achieve results by
coaching them on how to discover and build upon their strengths. She also
offers teleclass training and consulting in Organizational Effectiveness,
Branding Strategy and Leadership Development. Visit
http://www.progressiveleadership.com for more info & subscribe to her
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