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Have you
ever wondered why you seem to hit it off right away with some
customers, while with others it's more like oil and water?
That's because we respond intuitively to the natural chemistry,
or lack there of, between temperament styles.
Our
temperament style not only determines our behavioral traits,
body language patterns and buying style, but it also influences
our compatibility with other people.
Today we
have access to innovative tools such as the Internet, cell
phones, faxes and voice mail all designed to enhance our
communications and support us in selling more effectively.
Nevertheless, even with all of these technological tools at our
disposal, the alarming number of failed relationships,
dissatisfied employees and lost sales all reflect the fact that
none of us are as effective at understanding others as we would
like to believe.
For example,
what about that sale you thought you had made, but for some
unknown reason your prospect changed their mind and didn't
buy... or at least they didn't buy from you. Chances are you
lost that sale because of your inability to recognize and adjust
to your prospect's preferred buying style. This temperament
mismatch is often referred to as a "personality conflict."
Research in
the field of psychology tells us that we are born into one of
four primary temperament styles (Aggressive, Expressive, Passive
or Analytical).
A person's
temperament style is determined genetically and has nothing to
do with his or her astrology sign, birth order or childhood
experiences. Our temperament style is also unrelated to race or
gender. Each of these four primary behavioral styles requires a
different approach and selling strategy.
Ancient
Wisdom
Hippocrates,
the father of medicine, is credited with originating the basic
theory of the four temperament styles twenty-four hundred years
ago. Since the days of ancient Greece there have been many
temperament theories and a wide variety of evaluation
instruments, but essentially they utilize the four temperament
styles that Hippocrates identified. Hippocrates observed that
these four styles have a direct influence on our physiology,
character traits and outlook on life.
The
Aggressive or Worker style is:
Extroverted
- Determined - Demanding - Domineering -
Controlling
- Practical - Self-reliant - Decisive - Insensitive
Their major
weakness is "anger management". Under pressure the Worker will
work harder and may become ill-natured or explosive.
The
impatient and goal-oriented Worker prefers a quick, bottom line
presentation style. They expect you to be on time and well
prepared. They like it when you avoid small talk and get right
down to business.
Workers are
generally quick to make a decision. They are focused on results
and ask "what" questions. Keywords to use when presenting to a
Worker are results, speed and control. Give them options so you
don't threaten their need for control.
The
Expressive or Talker style is:
Extroverted
- Enthusiastic - Emotional - Sociable - Impulsive - Optimistic -
Persuasive - Unorganized
Their major
weakness is "emotional management".
Under
pressure the Talker will talk more, shop or eat, and may display
an emotional outburst.
The playful
and friendly Talker prefers a fast paced and enthusiastic
presentation style. Use a short warm up and allow extra time in
your presentation for them to talk.
Talkers can
be impulsive shoppers and are generally quick to make a
decision. The key to making a sale to a Talker is to keep them
focused on the presentation and allow time for them to express
their feelings.
Talkers seek
social acceptance and are concerned about what other people
think of them. They ask "who" questions.
Keywords to
use when presenting to a Talker are exciting, fun and
enthusiastic.
Keep your
presentation big picture and avoid giving them too much detail.
Consider using colorful pictures, pie charts or graphs when
presenting to this style.
The Passive
or Watcher style is:
Introverted
- Accommodating - Harmonious - Indecisive - Patient - Polite -
Uninvolved - Friendly - Sympathetic
Their major
weakness is "self-esteem management."
Under
pressure the Watcher will avoid conflict by sleeping in longer.
The peaceful
and stoic Watcher prefers a slow, deliberate presentation style.
Watchers, unlike the impatient Worker, require extra time to
warm up before you begin talking about business.
Watchers are
very sensitive to conflict or "sales pressure."
They have a
need to accommodate others and tend to ask "how" questions.
Keywords to use when presenting to this style are family,
service and harmony.
Help the
Watcher make a decision by giving them assurance.
They dislike
having to make decisions and are natural born procrastinators
who love the status quo.
The
Analytical or Thinker style is:
Introverted
- Thoughtful - Organized - Critical - Shy Detailed - Pessimistic
- Introspective - Secretive - Aloof
Their major
weakness is "stress management." Under pressure the Thinker
becomes withdrawn, depressed and worries more (panic attacks).
They "stress out" and seek perfection.
The cautious
Thinker prefers a slow, detailed presentation style and warms up
slowly. They are skeptical and typically research before they
purchase. Thinkers want detailed information and they tend to
ask "why" questions.
Keywords to
use are logical, safety and quality. Because they are concerned
about making a wrong decision and appearing incompetent, you can
expect the Thinker to want to take their time.
Their frugal
nature will cause them to "shop your numbers"
to make
certain they are not paying too much. Because of their desire
for research and their need to avoid making a mistake, Thinkers
often get bogged down in details. They get what is called
"paralyzes from analysis." Close the sale with the Thinker by
reducing their fear of making a mistake.
Give them
evidence, facts, testimonials and guarantees.
While there
are certainly many factors that influence the selling process,
by far the most important factor is to identify your prospect's
preferred buying style. Once you learn how to quickly and
accurately determine your prospect's temperament style using
body language, you will be able to close more sales in less
time!
John Boe presents a wide variety of motivational and
sales-oriented keynotes and seminar programs for sales meetings
and conventions. John is a nationally recognized sales trainer
and business motivational speaker with an impeccable track
record in the meeting industry. To have John speak at your next
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