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Difficult Customers - There's No Such Thing
A couple of years ago I had a call from a Customer Service Manager
working in the paper industry. He wanted me to run a seminar for
his team, on "How to Deal with Difficult Customers".
I had several telephone conversations with this manager organising
dates, times and getting to understand his business. If I was to
describe his style on the telephone I would use words like,
businesslike, cold, curt and somewhat impatient. I started to
realise that if I was one of his customers then I might have
been a bit "difficult". He certainly knew his business and I
don't think he was a bad person but warm and friendly - forget
it.
There are actually very few genuinely difficult customers in the
world. And I hear you say - "we've got all of them". However the
majority of customers in the world are reasonable people. They
may not think the way, look the way, sound the way that you do.
However they are your customers and if you want their business
then you've got to deal with them. They may get "difficult" from
time to time if they feel they've been let down. It's how you
handle them that'll determine if they continue to be a problem
or if you can turn them around.
Difficult customers and situations usually occur because some part
of our core service has failed or the customer perceives it to
have failed. We've not delivered on time, the customer has the
wrong product, it doesn't work or it's not what the customer
expected. What happens then is, the customer comes to the
interaction with us in a negative frame of mind. It's what
happens then that'll decide whether they deal with us again or
bad mouth us to other people.
The trick is not just to concentrate on fixing the core service
issues. Telling the customer that you'll replace the product,
deliver it in half an hour or knock something off the price,
isn't the answer. Sometimes you may not have an answer and the
customer is going to hear "NO". However as you're aware, it's
how you say "NO" that matters.
Let's consider some of the reasons customer interactions go wrong
and why they may become more "difficult".
1.
We
don't care. - We don't sound or look as if we care, are
concerned or appreciate the customer's situation. Maybe you do
care, however you've really got to say caring words and look and
sound as if you care. After all, the customer can't read your
mind
2.
We
don't listen. - Too often we try to jump in with solutions and
don't allow the customer to vent their feelings. Again we need
to show the customer that we're listening by what we say, how we
say it and our body language.
3.
We
let the customer "get to us". We often allow the customers
attitude to irritate or annoy us. This becomes obvious to the
customer, again through our tone of voice, our body language and
only fuels a difficult situation.
4.
We
use the wrong words. - There are certain trigger words that
cause a customer to become more difficult. Some of these are
"can’t, have to, sorry about that". Even your organisation's
jargon can have a negative effect on a customer interaction.
5.
We
don't see it from the customer's point of view. - Too often
customer service people think the customer is making too much of
a fuss. They think - "What's the big deal, we'll fix it right
away". The thing is, it is a big deal for the customer and they
want us to appreciate that. Customers will often judge the level
of your service based on how well you recover from a difficult
situation and they're very likely to forgive you if you do it
well.
Alan Fairweather is the author of four ebooks in the "How to get
More Sales" series. Lots of practical actions you can take to
build your business and motivate your team.-
www.howtogetmoresales.com
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