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Sales
Skills: How to
Build Trust and Rapport Quickly
If you're
working hard, but aren't consistently generating enough sales
and getting referrals, chances are it's a matter of trust. One
of the most critically important and yet frequently overlooked
aspects of selling is creating a solid foundation of trust and
rapport.
Suppose you
could incorporate a few simple, yet highly effective ideas into
your selling process and substantially increase your bottom
line?
Successful
salespeople have a knack for making people feel important. They
understand the value of building trust and rapport early on in
the selling process. For you see, it really doesn't matter how
knowledgeable you are about your product line or how many
closing techniques you have mastered, unless you earn your
prospect's trust and confidence you're not going to make the
sale period.
Once you
have established trust and rapport with your prospect, you
actually have the hard part behind you and can anticipate making
the sale. While there's no system that will work 100 percent of
the time with every prospect, fortunately there are fundamentals
you can use that will help you build trust and rapport quickly.
Gain the
Competitive Edge
Whether you
like it or not, people form impressions about you based on such
factors as appearance and attitude. When it comes to building
trust and rapport, there is nothing more important than making a
favorable first impression.
It's
important to remember that in most cases, your prospect's first
impression of you will be made over the phone or from a voice
message you leave.
Here are
some suggestions to help you create a favorable first
impression:
1. Show up
on time and be well prepared.
2. Maintain
a well-groomed appearance and dress appropriately
for your
market.
3. Be upbeat
and personable without becoming overly familiar.
Adjust to
Your Prospect's Temperament Style Research indicates people are
born into one of four primary temperament styles: Aggressive,
Expressive, Passive or Analytical.
Each of
these four primary temperament styles requires a unique approach
and selling strategy. For example, if you're selling to the
impatient, aggressive style, they want a short warm up and
expect a quick, bottom line presentation. While at the other
extreme, the cautious, analytical style requires a longer warm
up period and is interested in every detail.
Each of
these four behavioral styles can be easily identified by
observing their body language patterns. Once you learn how to
identify each of the styles, you'll be able to close more sales
in less time by adjusting to your prospect's preferred buying
style.
Understand Body Language
Body
language is a mixture of movement, posture and tone of voice.
Research indicates that in a face-to-face conversation, more
than 70 percent of our communication is nonverbal.
Our body
language reveals our deepest feelings and hidden thoughts to
total strangers. In addition, nonverbal communication has a much
greater impact and reliability than the spoken word.
Therefore,
if your prospect's words are incongruent with his or her body
language gestures, you would be wise to rely on the body
language as a more accurate reflection of their true feelings.
Be mindful
of your own body language gestures and remember to keep them
positive by unfolding your arms, uncrossing your legs and
smiling frequently.
Create
harmony by "matching and mirroring" your prospect's body
language gestures. Matching and mirroring is an unconscious body
language mimicry by which one person tells another they are in
agreement.
The next
time you are at a social event, notice how many people are
subconsciously matching one another. Likewise, when people
disagree, they subconsciously mismatch their body language
gestures.
An effective
way to begin matching your prospect is to subtly nod your head
in agreement whenever your prospect nods his or her head, or
cross your legs when they cross their legs etc.
By
understanding the meaning behind your prospect's body language,
you will minimize perceived sales pressure and know when it's
appropriate to close the sale.
Use
Active Listening Skills
Successful
salespeople take notes, listen attentively and avoid the
temptation to interrupt, criticize or argue with their
prospects. It's a good idea to occasionally repeat your
prospect's words verbatim. By occasionally restating your
prospect's key words or phrases you not only clarify
communication, but also build rapport.
During the
first fifteen minutes or so of the appointment, you should
listen more than you talk. Keep your attention focused on what
your prospect is saying and avoid the temptation to interrupt or
dominate the conversation. The quickest way to destroy trust and
rapport is to interrupt another person. If you do interrupt,
minimize the damage by apologizing and asking them to please
continue.
Establish
Your Credentials
It's
important for you to establish your credentials as an expert in
your industry early on during your initial appointment. Hand out
your business card and or company brochure, then mention two or
three reasons why you like working in your industry and for your
company.
Make sure
your marketing materials look professional and are kept
up-to-date. If you conduct appointments in your office, I
recommend you display your awards and certificates of
accomplishment.
Look for
Common Ground
Before you
begin your sales presentation or demonstration, you must first
"warm up" your prospect and make them feel comfortable. A great
way to establish common ground during the warm up is to discuss
the weather, sports or a local news story.
If you're
meeting your prospect in his or home or office, look at personal
items on display such as pictures or awards. People enjoy
talking about their hobbies and past accomplishments. For
example, if you notice a picture of your prospect holding a big
fish in his or her arms, ask them about it and watch them beam
with pride.
In today's
highly competitive marketplace, your prospects have many options
and are looking for a salesperson that they know they can trust
to work in their best interest.
Salespeople
who fail to put an emphasis on developing trust and rapport
actually do a disservice to their customers and in effect, leave
the backdoor open to their competition. In addition to
generating new sales, developing strong relationships will keep
competitors at arms length and your business on the books!
John Boe
presents a wide variety of motivational and sales-oriented
keynotes and seminar programs for sales meetings and
conventions. John is a nationally recognized sales trainer and
business motivational speaker with an impeccable track record in
the meeting industry. To have John speak at your next event,
visit
www.johnboe.com or call 877 725-3750. Free Newsletter
available on website.
Meet John
Boe:
www.johnboe.com/meetjohn.html
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& Keynotes:
www.johnboe.com/seminars.html
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